I like to tread unlikely crossroads. I am a Reformed minister’s son and a queer activist. I like watching Ajax as much as a good drag show. I like walking in heels as much as I like walking in trainers. Men and feminism could be added to that. It is at these crossroads, beyond the binary, that I find authenticity, beauty and a world of possibilities. I believe that everyone benefits from a non-binary vision, without rigid divisions between man and woman, man and nature, us and them. Men’s emancipation means that men can be simultaneously supportive and helpful, as well as vulnerable and dependent.