As a facilitator, I often give trainings to large groups of men. On issues related to inclusion and diversity, I noticed that men quickly conform to a certain standard that is imposed on them from upbringing, culture, media and society. When something falls outside this norm, friction arises. A friction that I recognise. Like these men, I have generally been socialised in the same way. Within my own circles, I have been able to change this norm with other men. I would like to offer all men the same space to grow, to be themselves unconditionally, but also to take responsibility for creating a safe society for everyone. That is what I am committed to.